Anna and Jonathan love each other. But Anna also loves Johannes. Not only this, he also has a physical relationship with these two .. and .. with some other people as well.
By the way, Jonathan also had a second girlfriend a few days ago. And as far as Johannes is concerned, he has a girlfriend for the last ten years, with whom he has also recently engaged.
Nobody is hiding anything from anyone in this slang of relationships. All these people are in open relationship with each other and they all believe that this is possible only because they talk openly to each other, do not try to hide anything.
Isn't it strange! But the strange thing is that every other person in Germany has cheated their partner at some time or the other. Some are caught, some are not. Some forget it as a matter of one night, then some get buried in the sense of sin and reach the psychologist for help.
Fear of commitment
One such psychologist is Uve Malin, who says that humans are not naturally made to spend their entire life with the same partner, it is just a social pressure. They know many people who have or have had more than one partner.
According to him, such people are afraid to commit to one person, "When a relationship gets too close, when you get tied up with someone, they naturally start trying to get out of it."
Eric is like that. He is 35 years old. Their longest relationship has lasted one and a half years. He explains, "It seems to me that I am not ready to commit to one of the relationships - marriage and children."
Web of relationships
The kind of relationship that Anna and Jonathan are in, it is not that anything goes on in that. This relationship with two partners also has some rules. Both of them tell each other. Not only love, but also express jealousy.
For example, Johnathan's other girlfriend lived in France. By the time she was away, everything was going well. But when she shifted to the same city where Aana and Jonathan live, the trouble started. The second girlfriend came for two months and wanted Jonathan to be with her during this period. Anna let this happen but he also had problems with it.
Eventually Jonathan had to breakup with another girlfriend. However, Anna's relationship with Johannes remains intact and Johannes with his fiancée.
Honesty is important
Psychologist Giselle Wolfe says that communication is extremely important for people living in such "polyamorous" relationships. Such a relationship can only go on if everyone involved is happy, "You can be as happy or unhappy in a polyamorous relationship as you are in a monogamous (same person) relationship. Therefore, you have to ask this question yourself. That's what you want. "
According to Giselle Wolfe, the biggest mistake in both types of relationships is hiding the secret. In this context, people living in traditional relationships can learn from them how to talk to each other freely. Honesty is most important in any relationship. And you can only be honest with your partner, if you will be honest with yourself. Without this, neither can one maintain a relationship with a human being and not at all with many.
